Every Decision is The Right One

Right Or Wrong My mom and I don't talk as much as other teens and their parents do. We feel out a long time ago, maybe about three years ago and every since then we have decided to keep our distance from each other. See, she choose someone else over me. A man that wasn't my father to be exact. She say it's because of the age difference. At the Time I was only Six-teen an he was twenty-three. My grandmother say she understood why my mom told me something that ridicules but at that time I didn't understand. I feel like no one comes before your flesh and blood. Definitely your child. At this stage of my life I was an absolutist. I felt like my mother and grandmother was wrong about their decision stating that I wasn't able to stay in her house because her boyfriend was too young. Although my mom and I still don't talk because of that situation, I know has become a relativist because now I can relate to the reason why sh didn't want a six-teen year old in her house (not her own daughter) next to her young boyfriend. I can relate now three years later because I not to long ago recently let a relative of mine forgetting about her age and how sexually active she was; not saying I didn't trust my husband but I didn't trust the situation. When I was at work, there were sometime that I didn't know what was going on just because I had another woman in my house. there can only be one me. Although it was my decision to let this person into my home and stay for this past summer, knowing the age and the person made a little uneasy. My grandmother told me that my suspicious was OK. Every woman should and usually do have those feelings that something that something is going on and that's the feeling those are the feelings that my mom didn't want to have. I was right to let this person stay with me and I was right to keep those thoughts in my head. I feel that every thought you have about a person is the right in some way shape or form. And it's the same on the other end when it comes down to being wrong about that thought about that person. The point of view about this one man may be right to him and wrong to you. There is no right or wrong way to do anything and there is no right or wrong decision. Everything that is done, said, and or thought is for a reason.